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| Has anyone ever hired a PI ? (Read 634 times) |
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posted: 10/9/2008 at 12:59 PM |
| Quote from Go PRE on 10/9/2008 at 9:20 AM: God Bless you Anya,, I'll be praying for you.
I second that. Wishing you the best (((Anya)))!
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posted: 10/9/2008 at 1:12 PM |
| Anya, you are also in my prayers. I say save your $$ and use it on yourself and don't waste a single dollar, or moment, more than you have to to find out something you may not want to know anyway. |
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posted: 10/9/2008 at 2:38 PM |
| Quote from Kerry1976 on 10/9/2008 at 1:12 PM: Anya, you are also in my prayers. I say save your $$ and use it on yourself and don't waste a single dollar, or moment, more than you have to to find out something you may not want to know anyway.
I agree, I wouldn't waste my money. And I don't know about in your state, but where I'm from proving that the other person is cheating has no bearing on amount of alimony or the divorce or anything. |
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posted: 10/9/2008 at 3:52 PM |
Cheaters need to be burned at the stake.
You could do a little detective work yourself, but that might lead to more misery. I say forget about the douchebag and move on to bigger and better things  .
Iin the meantime, make a craiglist's add stating "looking for some man on man action, call me for a good time" and put his number as the reference. |
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posted: 10/10/2008 at 1:27 AM |
| Quote from Anya_ on 10/9/2008 at 12:34 PM: I have been really scared over the whole economy thing. I'm planning on seeing what I can do here, if I fail, I'll come back. My insticts are telling me to stick it out here. But, my family is also calling me. I'm torn. If I knew I could find a good job, I'd be more inclined. I just don't know!
Trying to find a place out here is crazy. I'm 40, and it looks like I;ll have to get a roommate? I'm not sure I can really handle that.
Thanks all.
I guess you're right. I dont want to turn into a hateful person. I just really want to move on. I really thought I found the one guy who was responsible and honest. But I do admit making many, many mistakes. Up until I found out he possibly was cheating, I would have done anything to save this marriage. Now, I'm just ready to move on. Getting some good therapy and hopefully one day can find a loving relationship. It won't be for while.
Perhaps you could do what you can where you're at and see how things work out while keeping an eye on the job market in Michigan nearer your family. If something comes up and things aren't working out well where you are at, you could come back this way. I am really sorry for your situation, Anya, and I will keep you in prayer as well. |
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posted: 10/10/2008 at 12:50 PM |
Quote from rvelich on 10/10/2008 at 1:27 AM:Perhaps you could do what you can where you're at and see how things work out while keeping an eye on the job market in Michigan nearer your family. If something comes up and things aren't working out well where you are at, you could come back this way. I am really sorry for your situation, Anya, and I will keep you in prayer as well.
Thanks so much. I guess I can always go back to Michigan. I think I'll take your advice. Stick it out here, and see what happens. I'm starting to explore a roommate situation. I was totally opposed to it, but it might be worth a look. The killer, I could by a townhouse in MI for almost nothing. I hope the economy turns around soon!!!!!!!!  |
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posted: 10/10/2008 at 1:36 PM |
| Quote from Kerry1976 on 10/9/2008 at 1:12 PM: Anya, you are also in my prayers. I say save your $$ and use it on yourself and don't waste a single dollar, or moment, more than you have to to find out something you may not want to know anyway.
Ditto.
I'm sorry you're in this situation at all. If you do end up returning to MI you know there are a bunch of crazy thread-jackers here who would welcome you back with open arms. I hope your future is a more contented one than what you are living through right now. (((Anya))) |
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posted: 10/13/2008 at 12:50 PM |
| Thanks Zoomie. Love those Michiganders! |
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posted: 10/13/2008 at 2:47 PM |
Save your money. You won't feel any better either way.
Also, there's a 2 and a 5 that were placed backwards on that cherry pi. |
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posted: 10/13/2008 at 3:20 PM |
| Quote from andahuff on 10/8/2008 at 7:32 PM: Save your money. You are likely to need it.
Go to a bar and tell a stranger if you have to.
Well if I was single..... ok, Nah, I wouldn't try to take advantage of the situation |
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