I have an Internet friend from another life when I used to play music. He is a Spaniard, and lives in Madrid. We could not meet while I was there, as he was away on vacation, but we communicated a lot through emails while I was there, telling him what I was seeing, and my impressions, and him explaining to me the Spaniard point of view on my observations. Very fun, for both of us.
I sent him the link to this post because I often told him things I did not appreciate or I didn't understand while I was there, and it left him with the impression I did not like Spain that much. By sending him this link I wanted him to read what I told North Americans of what I saw.
Anyways, he answered my email and brought some rectifications and corrections to my previous posts. So here are Víctor's thoughts and corrections on my posts.
And he finished by telling me this: "The only thing I do not like about your post is that you say that the Spaniards have a tendency to throw their things on the ground a lot. I don't do it. "
So maybe my attempt to answer happylily's question was wrong. Maybe it was partly right. But it sure was too judgemental.