the title of this thread makes me giggle... I am not mature...

It's locked.

 

I left (to test it), and had to use the password to rejoin, just now.

so maybe current residents got to stay but new residents and lurkers won't be able to see it?

So are we kicking out all lurkers?

I don't see a need to kick out lurkers.

 

I had problems with Candice and Schneider over the summer and while I would hope that they are no longer paying any attention to me I would like to ensure that the only thing they can see is my log - they are not hearing about anything else going on in my life - both personal and running. They aired out some very personal information about me on RA. It was bad enough she spent a couple days constantly sending nasty text messages and emails but to then leak it onto RA crossed a line with me.

 

so that is the brief story on why I asked it to be locked down. I really think that it's no longer an issue and they are no longer paying attention to me, but the whole thing has left me jaded.

 

MTA: this is why I took a hiatus for a couple of weeks in the summer - it was a whole RA hiatus because I needed to get away from the site. You guys are my biggest reason for coming back!!!

I set it to totally private so you have to be a member to even see what we're posting. Current members, if they are logged in, can probably still do it but if they log out they'll need to ask for the password. I put that they had to ask me, but I sure hope I can remember it.... Glad to help in any way we can, Shannon. Life is too short to fret about meddling bitches.