Tom - I have been out of town & off line for a few days. News of Donna's passing makes me very sad. I understand a lot of what you are going through having lost Mindy to cancer 8 years ago. The emptiness and loneliness is so deep. But another thing that was deep was the love you shared. That was obvious every time you spoke of her. Her passing doesn't change that love. Hold on to it - it will help to sustain you during the days ahead. I echo SueT's suggestion about talking to someone from Hospice - they really helped me come to grips with it all. And don't be afraid to lean on your friends. We are here for you. I am sure Donna is watching over you too. Peace my friend. Skip