As you’ve heard, L&O has recently undergone a change in management. To celebrate this momentous occasion, I thought I’d take a minute to answer some common questions about our little corner of the internet.

 

1. What the hell? Why are you posting this?

Because, as I’ve said in many places, it irritates me to no end when people spout off when they have no idea what they are talking about or because they have a specific agenda they are trying to push. Not because I care about what they are saying, but because I know that innocent people who don’t know better will actually believe them. And that makes me sad because those people are generally the last that should ever be believed about anything.

 

2. Namtor has stated 8 thousand times that he was unfairly banned by L&O, what’s up with that?

Honestly, I don’t know because it was before my reign. But I’m willing to hazard a pretty educated guess: Because he says completely stupid crap like “L&O is nothing but a street gang.” Why would anyone want to associate with someone with that attitude? And if anyone believes him after all the bullshit he’s spouted here, I know a guy who can get you a good deal on some oceanfront property in Arizona.

 

3. I went into L&O once, made one post and everyone made me feel bad. Why would anyone go there?

Was it something stupid? I bet it was something stupid. Yeah, we’ve all said something dumb and had to listen to 20 people comment on how dumb it was. The difference is that some people are willing to own up to the fact that they said something dumb, and let it go. They survive and thrive in L&O. Others bitch constantly about how unfairly they were treated and so everything they ever post gets mocked mercilessly. If you’re one of those people who has to be right no matter what – well, you just better be right.

 

4. I’ve lurked there a few times and everyone was really mean to each other. If I go there, will they be mean to me too?

We definitely tend towards the sarcastic, and so if you hang around long enough you’ll probably be on the receiving end of some teasing. A lot of us have been posting in the same places for years and so we know each other pretty well. Even people who are new pick up the way it works pretty quickly and join in. If you hang around long enough you’ll realize that it’s not a big deal and you, too, can be “part of the gang.”

 

In fact, I’ll give you a freebie: I was raised in Oklahoma and then spent 18 years in Texas. Take your best shot. It’s okay, I can take it. Because my self worth isn’t wrapped up in an online running forum. If yours is, you might want to keep your distance.

 

The flip side of the teasing is that L&O is a pretty supportive community. Whether it’s lack of motivation to run, job pressures, family illness or even the brain tumor doctors thought I had last year, L&Osers are pretty great about providing information on any subject, or just a sympathetic ear to complain to. We celebrate each other’s victories and give each other a push when necessary. Who doesn’t need someone like that around?

 

5. Okay, so maybe L&O isn’t as horrible as I thought, but I’m pretty happy in B&B. Can I really be a part of both groups?

Absolutely! Many people post in both forums and this post is in no way meant to “steal” anyone from B&B. I don’t post a lot here because most of the topics don’t catch my interest, but many of you are my friends on Facebook or other groups. I’m a very nice person – in fact, I volunteer about 40 hours a week just to encourage people all over the world to be kind to each other.  And that in no way conflicts with hanging out in L&O. I’m the same everywhere, and it’s fine if you are too.

 

If you don’t want to come visit, that’s cool. I’ll be the first to admit that we’re not everyone’s cup of tea. But please do keep in mind that the “conflict” between B&B and L&O is made up of a handful of people that build it up so they can feel more important about themselves. Most of us on both sides of the fence are happy to live and let live. Before you jump on the “they are so bad!” bandwagon, just make sure that you’re speaking about something you know, and not something you read somewhere. Despite what you might have heard, not everything on the internet is true.

 

Something I didn’t answer that you’re dying to know? You know where to find me.

Nice race, Jason.

I can't be fucked, I am not posting in a forum that claims to be L&O where people like bat..twa...whoo? is even part of it? Nothing personal but rewind 8 years ago for me. It's about the fact that anyone who was or still is L&O and part of the history should be able to post of their free will. And it's not just me, others have left.

L&O has a load of history, which is being overlooked unfortunately. So, whatever other forums might judge as "L&O" is a very weak strain of the original.

KK,  WTF are you talking about? 

+1

Yeah, looks like there might be some unresolved issues that need to be taken elsewhere.

KK,  WTF are you talking about? 

^This. So many people say that so many times a day.

Thanks for posting, Batgirl.

I can't be fucked, I am not posting in a forum that claims to be L&O where people like bat..twa...whoo? is even part of it? Nothing personal but rewind 8 years ago for me. It's about the fact that anyone who was or still is L&O and part of the history should be able to post of their free will. And it's not just me, others have left.

 

L&O has a load of history, which is being overlooked unfortunately. So, whatever other forums might judge as "L&O" is a very weak strain of the original.

So what? People change and so do group dynamics. We need to adapt, or move on if we don't like it. Maybe you can start a new user group called, "The Real L&O" You can even crown yourself as head mod.

 

+1

Yeah, looks like there might be some unresolved issues that need to be taken elsewhere.

I thought you were banned.

 

It's "its" you mouse-brained moron.

always find that only people who are basically morons correct other people's grammar. Unless they're editing a manuscript or something, which you sir, clearly are not.

How was everyone's run today?

How was everyone's run today?

What's that you say?  Rum?  I haven't touched any in years.