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Father's Day Weekender (Read 21 times)

moonlightrunner


    Happy Father's Day Weekend to all, especially all you dad's out there.

     

    I am in Indiana this weekend visiting DD and two of my grandbabies. Not sure if I will have much of a chance to run. There is a shocking lack of single track in this area...and my road allergy prevents running miles on pavement .

     

    QOTD: All about dads. Your dad (or significant dad figure in your life), you as a dad stories, quips, anecdotes, memories. Whatever Floats Your Boat about having a dad, being a dad or the dad to your kids.

    My dad is 88, and I see how age can change a person on the outside in appearance and action. I know he wants to do the things that made him happy, but his abilities have declined.

     

    My dad has always been dedicated to his girls. Growing up we had horses and went to horses shows every weekend in the summer. It was only after I became an adult with two horses that I realized what a sacrifice that was financially. Nothing made him happier than seeing his girls out there riding fine and having fun. I miss those carefree days...of course I complicated things with adolescent angst.

     

    I am sitting in the living room, dog on one side, cat on the other. There is a gentle roll of thunder. It doesn't get much better for an early Saturday morning.

     

    Happy trails to all. I hope you dad's get the royal treatment!

    January , 2022 Yankee Springs Winter Challenge 25k

    FTYC


    Faster Than Your Couch!

      Good morning, planning on a few miles this afternoon.

       

      I am remodeling DS's room, and planning it takes a lot of time for two reasons:

      1) the room is tiny and poorly laid out (you wonder how a 8x9 room can even be laid out, but the closet, described as "walk in" in the lease, actually is only 4'8" high  and this makes things difficult when you know your son is growing up to be somewhere around 5'8" to 5'10" in the next 2-3 years).

      2) Currently there's our piano in the room and I can't get rid of it - nobody wants it. I have tried donating it to different organizations, advertising it for free, asking people, no success. And I can't get my heart to just destroying it, as it is fully functional and flawless. So there's that piano in this tiny room, and it takes up half the space already.

      How the heck do you get rid of a piano? It weighs around 350 lbs and pianos break easily, so I can't even move it myself.

       

      moonlight: Enjoy the time with your grandkids!

       

      QOTD: My dad is a hero in my life. We are very similar in terms of being risk-takers, fearless and adventurous, and rather be without people around than having to deal with them. We both love nature and being outdoors, hiking, camping, and observing wildlife and flora.

       

      When I was growing up, our family used to go on extensive travels, or rather expeditions, by car, from one place to another every day, to find my dad's "animals" (he is an entomologist and works on tiny leaf-mining moths). That involved a lot of hiking, and looking at all kinds of plants and trees to find leaves which had the moth larvae in them. We would travel across whole continents on these expeditions.

       

      Now my dad is 86 years old, and up until this year, he still went on his expeditions, either with my sister, or with fellow entomologists, or twice with me. At the age of 83 and 85, he took a plane from Europe to America, and together we traveled by car across several states, again in search of his "animals". It was fun to come around full circle again and re-live this experience from earlier years that we both love so much.

      It is sad that my mom can't do this any more, she is suffering from severe dementia, but my dad takes care of her at home and would never put her in a facility.

       

      Just a few weeks ago, my dad was diagnosed with parotid (?) cancer, and he got surgery. He is scheduled to receive radiation treatment as follow-up. Unfortunately, in the three weeks between surgery and radiation, the tumor grew right back to its original, huge size, and the doctors do not give him much of a chance of getting rid of it. So it might only be a few weeks that my dad's going to be around, or a few months. I do not know how this is going to turn out, but I hope to be able to travel to Austria and see him again.

      I don't have a passport (it expired), and I can't take my kids with me (court order within divorce), so this is difficult to arrange.

      But still, my dad is my hero, and I hope to see him again while he is still around.

      Run for fun.

      moonlightrunner


        FTYC...your dad sounds like an interesting man. Your "expeditions" sound wonderful. So sorry about your parents health problems. I hope you can see them soon.

         

        Good luck with the remodel. Sounds like a big project.

        January , 2022 Yankee Springs Winter Challenge 25k

        wcrunner2


        Are we there, yet?

          First three miles at a quick pace for me, but I quickly overheated doing that, so the remaining 1.1 miles was more a brisk walk to get back to the start.

           

          qotd: My father was a character. Think Groucho Marx type of sense of humor. He was also a commercial artist and that extended to always having some sort of remodeling project in progress around the house and yard. Largely self-educated he was enamored with trying to understand relativity and quantum physics despite having no head for math and only a GED as his formal education. Fortunately I had a talent for math and much of our interaction while I was growing up was helping him with his equations and calculations, no tossing a baseball or football for us. I apparently inherited his quirky sense of humor and love of puns.

           2024 Races:

                03/09 - Livingston Oval Ultra 6-Hour, 22.88 miles

                05/11 - D3 50K
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                06/17 - 6 Days in the Dome 12-Hour.

           

           

               

            21.2 miles around the coastside today.  Foggy and cool for most of it.

             

            I like hearing people's stories.

             

            Couch, I'm sorry your dad is not doing well and hope that you can find a way to see him.

             

            QOTD: My dad is 83 and still likes to go exploring with his kids.  His travels this year include (or have already included) Ireland, Seattle, Atlanta, Bishop, Italy, and the Philippines.  The pic below is from our roadtrip two weekends ago to Bishop, via the Sonora Pass.  His health is so-so.  As he puts it, he has an old man's back and his legs are weak.  Although he isn't too steady on his feet, I hope he keeps active for a long while yet.  He lives about an hour away from me.  I'll be up there tomorrow for dinner with him and my brother & family.

             

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            Daydreamer1


              Spending a day at work.  Sometimes I think I'd rather be poor then to keep working.

               

              FTYC - Ouch, that sounds like an impossibly small room.  No ideas on the piano. Did you try Facebook Marketplace?

               

              QOTD:  My dad was by far the adventurous one of my parents.  He always wanted to just take off on a Sunday drive and keep going to see around the next bend and over the next hill.  Unfortunately my mother was the exact opposite.  She always was anxious and fearful and seemed to cultivate that. She also had a much stronger personality then my dad so he mostly just stayed home.

               

              At the same time he managed to do some interesting things.  Dropped out of high school after 9th grade, went in the Air Force, became a aircraft crash rescue/firefighter for them then worked in that job as a civilian for 16-17 years. Ended up getting pretty high up with some very high security clearances.  Met several of the presidents back in the 60's and 70s when he would be providing fire protection for Air Force One.  He always seemed to have a knack for meeting and talking to the bigwigs. When he was driving truck he was on a first name basis with several CEOs of larger supermarkets.  Part of that was that he hauled a lot of produce for a old order Mennonite guy and would often deliver special products to the CEOs and others.    At the same time he didn't really do a lot of things with us kids. Hunting every fall was one of the big things that we did together.

               

              When we moved to PA, they bought a old farm house that had some really bad floors and walls. He tore out floors and walls, replaced joists and studs and really became a pretty good trim man.  Now at 82 I had to go over and change a flapper bulb in their toilet the other day. He knew what was wrong but seemed unable to know how to proceed . At the same time my mother may have been the one not letting him do it.

              GC100k


                2+ hour run with my wife today as she gears up for her first marathon. She's been a runner for 30+ years but has never wanted to race.

                 

                My dad was a computer programmer starting in 1960 when it was all in machine language. Brilliant man. He's 80 now and has been diagnosed with some dementia. He's still the same guy but some things have started to slip and it's real frustrating to him since he was always the one with the quick wit. Neither he nor my mom are in great health and they'll need assisted living soon. They're pretty much in that now except it's my brother assisting them and he's just taken a new job in a different town.

                 

                Just a couple years ago my dad and I traveled to Oregon to see my son compete in the NCAA championships (he was All-American in decathlon). My dad probably couldn't handle that trip now so it was really special to have that time and my dad talks about that trip just about every time we talk.

                AT-runner


                Tim

                  Ran a longish run at Mash Creek SP on or way to Philly. Lots of MTB’ers out there and a few hikers. Was pretty warm and mugggy and trails seemed to be in the direct sun more than I thought they would be, but nice place.

                   

                  Saw Paul Simon last night. Great concert.

                   

                  QOTD:  My Dad died in a car accident 16 years ago. He had just retired and never gt to enjoy it. He was a great guy and my favorite quality that he had was treating all people the same. It didn’t matter if it was a company CEO or the company janitor, he always had time to talk to them and showed respect when he did.  Family was everything to him, and he was the one who kept everyone connected. He coached us in any sport we played growing up and to this day, my brother and I still help out coaching kids.

                  “Paralysis-to-50k” training plan is underway! 

                  GC100k


                    My girls made me an AT cake for Father's Day:

                     

                    Sandy-2


                      Did 13 yesterday and 6 today.  Sort of a cutback week for me since I'm going to do that 30k with my kiddos next Saturday night.  Today's run was in the pouring rain, I was hoping it would be cool, but it was like a warmish shower.  The sun came out for the middle miles and it was like a total freakin mugfest steam bath...  uuugh.  For the last mile the rain really came down and wind came up a bit out of the north and it was a refreshing 82 deg. The lightening also help keep my legs moving.

                       

                      Cool cake GC !!!!  By the way and with a nod to the “great pie debate”, here’s a photo of today’s desert; my DW made a blueberry buckle.

                       

                       

                      qotd: My Dad was pretty cool.  He had all of us sailing on the bay as soon as we could and I always appreciated that.  He was a bit of a hot head at times and drank a little too much at times, but his heart was always in the right place even if he did things in his own round-a-bout way.  He always listened and looked after our Mom and us kids though.  I have a ton of really great memories growing up, but also a few not so great ones too. What can I say?, he was my Dad.

                      2/17/24 - Forgotten Florida 100 Mile, Christmas, FL

                      Queen of Nothing


                      Sue

                        Little joggy yesterday and nuttin but chores today.  Wash the boat to put it up for sale.  That's ok, it was really just a big raft for us.

                         

                        Qotd:  My Dad was a school teacher when we were young so every summer we would pack up the station wagon and head off for a month.  Later is was the Superidentent and summers was when he did most of their work. So those trips ended but we still csmped on weekends.  We didn't have too good of a relationship when I was a teenager.  Hormones!!!  they make for good stories now!  I went to college and than moved west so only see him twice a year.   He's in great shape, Mom not so much.  Their  relationship is a lot like DD parents...

                         

                        I am headed off to my first backpacking trip.  Doing 38 miles on the PCT from Donner Summit to Sierra City.  Have 9 old ladies going.  Two are backpacking pros and the rest of us are newbies...although all in shape.

                         

                        gc:  nice cake!

                         05/13/23 Traverse City Trail Festival 25K

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                        Bert-o


                        I lost my rama

                          Long road trip to VA and back over the weekend, and now just catching up and really enjoying all the dad stories.  It's interesting how we can see bits of own own father in others'.

                           

                          Ran 11 along the Potomac Heritage Trail on Sunday morning.  It was pretty muddy in parts from all the rain this year, but not terrible.  Saw a fox and lots of deer along the way.

                           

                          FTYC - Hope you can find a solution to the piano.  And if you don't try to get an expedited passport renewal, go with the regular renewal ASAP.  Sometimes it doesn't take as long as they say (surprising for the government).  Hope you can get back to see your dad soon.

                           

                           

                          My dad went straight into the Army at 18 and retired as a colonel after 32 years, being stationed in Germany, Japan, and Korea.  After retiring from the Army, he went into seminary and became an Episcopal priest for another 12 years.  While my mom was the matriarch of the family, dictating our family activities, my dad was the one who kept everything and everyone grounded.  Being the youngest of 6 kids, I didn't really spend a lot of time with my dad growing up, because by then he was a priest and spent a lot of off hours and weekends doing his duties.  But I always found it funny that he didn't want to swear, but when he'd lose his temper, he'd only say "Judas Priest".

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