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I have 3 little ones and I wouldn't stay married very long if I got home at 6:45p and told my wife I was going for a run. My running already tests her a bit.
...that's just my time with my girls - reading, brushing teeth, etc. I love that time with them (when they're not acting like wild animals) So, I'm trying to research ways to add mileage to my mornings so I too have an adequate base and a bit more structure (not completely structured ) so I can run that first marathon in May and still have my family love me .
EGH3: Time running management difficulty varies with the age your kids are too. My kids are in Tae Kwon Doe lessons when I do my main runs. They are at advanced level, and have more time in lessons than I do running. (I would go crazy to sit and watch every lesson.) Their Dad goes to more lessons and sometimes I feel bad when I don't know the patterns like Dad does, but I help the kids with the book stuff they have to memorize. They must be learning good stuff because before my last marathon I asked oldest for last minute advice and he said, "Don't give up, whatever you do, don't give up." (Momma pride there.) What I really struggle with is dinner time. I sit at the table and watch them eat, try not to eat. If I each my run is bad. When the kids are very little, they usually have early bed time. I have read many of a book dressed in running clothes ready to head out the door as soon as they are tucked. Maybe you could run with your kids? Mine are 5 & 7 and we try to run together 3xweek for 1-2 miles, youngest walks sometimes. When my legs are tired they always beat me, which is a bummer because first one home gets the biggest ice cream cone. Do you have a TM? I hate it because I get hurt more on it, but sometimes for busy parent that is an option too. Tuck kids in, 30 minutes on TM. There is a Doc Marathon runner in town that does ALL his runs with jogging stroller, even up hills. Took 10 minutes off his PR doing this. I have to admit, it is a huge time sacrifice, my only friends are runners, all I got time for. Time with DH probably take the biggest hit, he seems to "get it" though.