Forums >General Running>Five cross country practices per week - my 'new to running' kids cry 'too much' - what should I advise them to do?
OK, I'd like some advice or feedback. Especially from former (or current) high school cross country runners. My two sons joined their high school's cross country team for the first time this year. One is a junior, the other is a freshman. Both are involved in lots of other activities and like to do things after school with their friends like any typical high school kid. Neither has run for running's sake before, although the junior is a soccer player and is in pretty good shape. The cross country coach suggested they run during the summer, I think 20-30 minutes per day, 3 or 4 times per week. They both ran during the summer, but not as much as recommended. Anyway, they started cross country practice last week. They practice 5 times per week, so it has been quite a step jump increase in training for both of them. This week, they now are saying that they'd like to skip one practice a week. They implied that 'everyone does it' and that they were going to do this without consulting the coach. When I pressed them further, it turned out it wasn't because the training was too hard on them. Rather, they just want to have some time to hang out with their friends after school every once in a while (their best friends are not on the cross country team). As of now, school ends at 3:30 and practice starts at 5 and ends at 6:30. So it does really take up their after school time. Anyway, I only started running 2 years, when I was 42. So I have no experience with cross country teams or what the expectations are. I can understand where my kids are coming from, but my guess is the coach would not agree that "everyone skips practice" about once per week just because they feel like it. Certainly not without first discussing it with the coach and supplying a reasonable rationale for skipping practice. The only reasonable rationale I can think of is that if the step jump increase in training really is too hard for them, given their lack of experience, then maybe it is reasonable to discuss with the coach the possibility of a more gentle ramp up in training. I really want them to keep up with running, but I don't want them to 'shirk' their responsibilities to their new team or coach either. Any advice or thoughts on how to negotiate this little situation? Thanks in advance for your thoughts!
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I'd talk to the coach about this "skipping practice" pattern. Life lessons are being taught at this age. When I was in track and football, if an athlete missed a practice, he missed the next game/meet unless it was due to illness, injury, or an emergency.
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I'd give them a choice: They either go to practice, every practice, or they quit the team. However, if they quit, they have to replace it with another activity or get jobs. Then hold out the employment section of your local paper. If they truly don't like XC, I think it's counter-productive to force them to continue. But letting them quit to go hang out with friends? That's what study hall and weekends are for. Plus, God forbid they make new friends on the XC team.
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I'd give them a choice: They either go to practice, every practice, or they quit the team. However, if they quit, they have to replace it with another activity or get jobs. Then hold out the employment section of your local paper.
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