No matter how pretty I have yet to meet a man who is stumbling tongue tied in awe around his wife after 20 years. 

Just kind of reminds me of my friend.  She had vowed to never do anything in front of her dh that would break the spell.  Like vomit or fart or anything.  She got pregnant on their honeymoon and had morning sickness that hospitalized her .  The vomit pledge lasted about 4 weeks.   I'm guessing the tongue tied awe was probably gone about the same time.