Could ya imagine, if there were someone visiting here for the first time today.... Thanks Leslie....I don't feel like a freak or something Tim

Wow, Holly, see what you started re: helping around the house? I, too, do the brunt of the housework, but all 3 of us take turns cooking dinner. The person who cooks is also supposed to clean the kitchen afterward, but somehow that usually falls to me. When DH cleans the kitchen, he gets miffed if I don't notice and thank him - even though I look at it as his turn to clean. But I guess thanking him is a small price to pay if it means he'll actually clean up. Leslie, too funny about your DH's laundry! I'll wash my DH's stuff if it's IN THE LAUNDRY HAMPER. If it's on the floor, no go. DD has been doing her own laundry for several years now, but she, too files it on the floor in her room. I never can figure out how she knows what's clean and what's dirty. She seems to know, though, because unlike boys, teenage girls like to look nice. Tall, sorry you're still dealing with your angry ex-wife. I'm sure it can be hard to continue to take the high road but do what will make your daughters proud of you. Fight back, but fight fair. 4 miles at lunchtime, 74° and sunny. I was kinda surprised I didn't melt, but I actually felt pretty good.

....yes, and I'm Appalled........... and while I'm thinking about it, who was it talked me into ordering ''CatCrap'' to defog my sunglasses????

That wasn't WRFB was it??

There will be no peeing wars in my house. My goal is for my kids to be appealing enough so that someone will want to marry them at some point and take them off my hands....

Tallrunner sorry about events with your soon to be X. It seems like things always end up this way. I hope that somehow everything gets under control as you are right -- in a divorce battle only the lawyers win. On the deer front, I have been using Liquid Fence and it seems to get them to eat elsewhere. On the housework front, I want to chime in on the part of my half of the species! In my house the DW is the slob not the DH! When we moved I insisted we get a place where she would have her own office into which I can periodically toss all of the papers, magazines and other mail she leaves all over the place in piles. Saved our marriage!

...yep, I think you're right..........after spitting, CatCrap, and WD-40 (hey, I'm Southern)........ ..the Right Answer was ''Ventillation''......got some sunglasses that were less curved, and it worked

I'm wholly in favor of shooting the wheatgrass.

hey tw, I was just going to ask if you played the dulcimer. did you? OK, I'll go look at the video of your road. SRL... were you the patient? Re wheatgrass... not that I'm disagreeing... but what are the benefits? Woods Lady... please define a fake runner. If any of you run low on cat turds... (sorry Leslie)... there's this raccoon I know....